10 Reasons Why This is the Best Place in the World
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Many of us are over-saving and under-living. The reality is that around half of today’s retirees have more savings than they will ever need - some even doubling their money over the course of their retirements. • Social Security is not going broke. • Inflation is not going to bankrupt you. • Medicare covers more than you realize. • Your savings may go further than you think. • You don’t need a million dollars to retire. Have FUN. You’ve earned it.
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If one thing could be said about Betty Brown is that she was a hard worker. At age 15 she started working at a drugstore counter, and for the next 43 years, she continued to work a hodgepodge of various jobs.
Betty never went to college and never found employment that paid her a decent wage, but she was tenacious. She worked overtime whenever she could, and would often work another job on the weekend.
Besides a strong work ethic, Betty had also developed one additional habit. She saved money. Oh boy, did she save. Throughout her entire working life, she meticulously put away as much money as possible. She learned how to live on an incredibly slim budget. Betty, financially speaking, had done everything right.
I first met her in her late fifties. She looked tired.
“My job is killing me,” she lamented. “They expect more and more work each month without any more help.”
“How much are they paying you?” I inquired.
“$17 an hour. I haven’t had a raise in three years.”
“Betty,” I suggested, “You have nearly $750,000 saved up here. Between social security and the investment income you can derive from the money, you will have plenty each month. In fact, you will have much more money coming in if you quit work and ‘retired’ than you do now.”
“I don’t know Dave, it just doesn’t seem right,” Betty lamented. “I guess I might be ok, but I think I should work a few more years just to be safe.”
Four years later, Betty came in to see me. “Dave,” she said grimly, “I have pancreatic cancer. The doctors are not optimistic, they think I only have a few months to live.”
The doctors’ heartbreaking prediction came true, and within two months Betty passed away and went home. Her $750,000 sat untouched, unused, and unenjoyed.
As Betty had no children, she named her husband as the primary beneficiary on her accounts. But, during the last few weeks of her life, the inheritance became more and more important to her.
She literally spent some of her last days on Earth perfecting her complex and generous contingent beneficiary list: Nephews, nieces, the aunt and uncle who raised her, friends in need… Bob Brown, her husband, was in full agreement.
After he were to pass away, he kept talking about how he wanted to maintain her wishes. He even told her how he planned to help important people in her life now.
Unfortunately, when Betty passed away, as Bob was primary beneficiary, he got all the money. The contingent beneficiaries meant nothing.
Betty’s husband came in to see me shortly after her death. Bob and his wife had never seen eye to eye on their money. In fact, Betty hid most of her financial information from her husband, fearing he may wastefully spend it.
When Bob showed up in my office, along with his brother, I knew Betty’s wishes were in serious trouble. Not only did Bob change all the beneficiaries according to his wishes, but the questions his brother was asking caused me great concern.
“Betty had some sort of hangup about spending money,” Bob’s brother scoffed. “We think differently.”
“We”? Since when was Betty’s brother-in-law involved with any of this? In fact, Betty and the brother-in-law had not spoken in years. Betty did not trust him and did not like him.
And now her husband and, ostensibly, her brother-in-law, had her money.
You can guess where this is going. The money was gone in a couple years.
Bob, his brother, and a bunch of their buddies spent a couple months traveling around the world. Classic cars were purchased, gambling losses were significant, bar tabs were large. Good times. They didn’t even have to look at the price.
Betty. A lifetime of struggle. A lifetime of labor. Gone. In hindsight, it was almost like Betty existed as an indentured servant to provide funds for her in-law’s debauchery.
Even as I write this, I feel anger welling up inside of me.
Morals of the Story: 1. Money brings people out of the woodwork.
What Can You Do? Create a sensible and logically plan that allows you to spend more now, while not mortgaging your future.
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Let’s talk about the importance of wills and other important financial documents.
Note: I am not an attorney. I know just enough to give you the basics.
When it comes to legal documents there are four basic items.
Your Last Will and Testament.
Your Health Care Advance Directive
Your Durable Power of Attorney
Your Trust documents
Is this stuff fun to think about? No. Is it something you’ve been putting off for years? Probably. Do you know it is important? Yes.
Your Last Will and Testament. All of you know what this means. It basically tells everyone who gets your stuff. For example, your may wish that all of your assets are split between your three kids.
Now, whatever passes through the will has to go through a process called “probate.” Probate seems to be a scary word to people, but the concept is very simple. Before the money can be passed on to the beneficiaries, creditors get a chance to collect any unpaid bills.
The “Executor” or “Executrix” handles this process. If you have gone through this process, it’s not a lot of fun. You should be very proud of yourself for putting up with the hassle. For large estates, this process can last for a year or more. Smaller estates can expect about six months before the assets are distributed. Remember, IRA’s, 401k’s, life insurance, and annuities do not go through probate. They go instantly to the heirs.
Quick Dave Note: Homes, farms, and other real estate properties are notoriously a mess to leave to heirs. Probate is complicated. Kids fight. You need to have specific instructions as to what you want to be done with the house.
Health Care Advance Directive. Here’s something that is super fun to think about. Who gets to make medical decisions for you if you are unable to do so for yourself? This document better allows your loved ones to advocate on your behalf. It gives them access to all your medical records and allows them to authorize medical procedures. And of course, this document outlines when it is time to pull the plug. (like I said, not real fun document)
Durable Power of Attorney. A durable power of attorney simply shows who can handle your financial affairs if you are unable to do it for yourself. Often a spouse is put into this position. You would be surprised at how many things a spouse cannot access without a power of attorney in place. Does Mom need money sent from her IRA to her checking account for important expenses if she is not capable? Without this document, you cannot make that transfer.
A common example is selling Mom’s primary residence upon her entering into an assisted living facility contract on her behalf. You need to have the ability to act as her representative.
This doesn’t only apply to elderly parents. It can also apply to a spouse with a sudden injury where he/she is unable to communicate their wishes.
Trusts. I’m sure you’ve heard the term “Trust Fund Baby.” What does that actually mean? Trust documents give you control of your money from beyond the grave. Instead of dumping your money into the laps of kids all at once, a trust gives you control over how and when they receive the money.
Examples:
“Upon my death, my son gets 25% of the money when he turns 25, 25% when he turns 30, and the rest when he turns 35.”
“Upon my death, my children may receive 5% of my trust value per year.” (This is a common strategy for charitable trusts. If the money is invested, the portfolio should make an average of 5%, so that the trust fund will last forever).
Not only do trusts allow you to control your assets beyond the grave, but they can also protect your money from getting in the hands of people you don’t like.
“Upon my death, these trust funds may be paid out to my daughter and her children. In the event of a divorce, my son-in-law has no rights to this money in the trust.”
Why is this important? If you dump a lot of money into your child’s lap when you die, and your child then gets divorced, her ex could go after half of the assets, including the inheritance. If the money stays in the trust he has no claim against those assets.
And how about…
If one child gives all the care to elderly parents. Do they get more of the inheritance? These documents would spell this out. These clear directions could stop any fighting between the kids.
What if your kids face a lawsuit? Trusts can help protect those assets.
What happens if your child dies, and their spouse gets all the money? Are you ok with that?
I hope this at least gets you thinking about your own death. I’m just kidding. Don’t think about that.
It is so easy to ignore these issues. Just do it!. Get it out of the way. Do you know who didn’t have any of these documents upon his death? Michael Jackson. Can you imagine the mess? Can you imagine people coming out of the woodwork trying to get their “share” of the loot? He died ten years ago and court battles continue and will continue to go on for years and years.